What We Can Do
- Listen
- Allow you to vent
- Offer support
- Help you come up with ideas of what you feel
will work for you
- Help you develop a plan
- Connect you to many resources in our community
where you can get specific, professional support
What
We Cannot Do
- Give advice
What might work for us might not work for you.
- Make a judgment of right or wrong for you
Since we are not in your shoes, TALKLINE's philosophy
is to help you identify pros and cons; look at alternatives;
think about consequences.
- Share personal information about ourselves
Calls are confidential between people who call and people
who work at TALKLINE.
How We Can Help
- It is proven that talking out a problem
allows an individual to
"hear themselves", sometimes for the first time.
- Thousands of individuals who have called have
told us they felt better after having the opportunity to talk
to someone and "test the waters".
- TALKLINE assists people in learning conflict
resolution and problem solving skills.
- We connect people to community resources.
How does a worker know if the
caller is serious about a situation?
All calls are taken seriously. Workers
are not judgmental nor do they tell people what to do.
Do you follow up on calls?
No. We are not counselors or caseworkers.
Follow up with a school occurs in cases of abuse or suicide
if we are not able to intervene with the appropriate community
resource because of lack of information. Occasionally we will
hear back from a referral source, confidentially, without a
name being used, just to let us know that services were instituted.
Are all the reasons for
calls serious?
No. Actually many people just call
for someone to talk to. Some are happy; some kids need help
with homework; many are lonely or stressed. Some call back to
let us know what has happened. Others we dont hear from
again.
How old are the callers?
They youngest caller to date has
been 3, and the oldest was 93.
How long do calls last?
Calls can last from 1 minute to hours
in a crisis situation, if needed. Calls from kids usually last
5-25 minutes; whereas calls from adults can last an hour.
Who supervises the phone line
workers?
A staff supervisor is always there
with phone line workers and is the individual to intervene in
crisis situations.
Is BerksTALKLINE open 24 hours
a day?
Currently the phone lines are open
11 am - 11 pm, seven days a week, excluding holidays.
How and why did BerksTALKLINE
start?
Read about our History.
Why should people call a stranger
about their problems?
Sometimes is it easier to "test
the waters" over a phone with someone who does not know
you and will not form a judgment or opinion about what you are
saying. Our role is not to take the place of a parent, teacher,
counselor, or friend, but to offer an individual the opportunity
to speak to someone during those hours or times when someone
else may not be available, or at moments when they wish to speak
anonymously. |